If you suspect a loved one is suffering from a pelvic floor disorder (PFD), empower her to seek help. Though you may be nervous about talking about PFD, you can initiate an open dialogue by introducing the topic with these conversation starters: 

• I noticed you have been going to the bathroom frequently throughout the day/night....
• I read some really interesting information about pelvic floor disorders the other day and thought you might be interested to know that a lot of women have similar problems that can be treated...
• I have noticed you haven't been as active as you have been in the past.  Is it related to your leaking problem?
• Have you noticed leakage when you are coughing, laughing or lifting heavy objects?

If you loved one's response indicated that she may have PFD, Schedule an appointment with her primary care doctor, gynecologist or a urogynecologist for an evaluation.

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